In this episode, we have a insightful conversation with Hita Gambheer, a Staff Software Engineer at Marqeta, residing in the Bay Area. Hita is a mother of three, with twins aged 5 and a 1.5 year old baby. She candidly shares her experiences and strategies for navigating the complex balance between a demanding career and the responsibilities of parenthood.

Hita touches on the pervasive challenge of mom guilt and the realization that trying to operate at full throttle both at work and in parenting isn't sustainable.

The episode unfolds with Hita offering practical tips for fellow parents in the tech industry. She advises against the assumption that weekends need to be dedicated to work, emphasizing the importance of setting realistic commitments to avoid overworking. Hita advocates for a balanced approach, highlighting that demonstrating productivity doesn't require sacrificing personal time.

Hita encourages listeners not to stress excessively about work or their children. She reminds us that everything has its time, and it's crucial to take things one day at a time. Her insights provide a refreshing perspective on achieving a harmonious balance between professional and family life, making this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating the challenges of parenthood in the tech world.

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